Don't ask Don't care

I need to lift the following from Big Black and Cocky:

Don't ask, don't care.
Do not encourage her to tell you her problems. Typically, anyone a woman tells her problems to is someone she will not sleep with. Besides, if you’re the guy she’s pouring her heart out to about her relationship problems, chances are that the guy she's sleeping with doesn’t give a crap what she thinks-- and that may be part of the reason why she’s sleeping with him. If she wanted a man that listens to her problems, why is she still fucking him?

Yep. Just about says it all. Unfortunately I have recently been hit by this particular issue. Makes no sense at all.